... is what Tate told me last week on our way home from the fair. This was our third trip to the annual Peachtree Fair that comes to Habersham County every September. Britton has never been old enough to go with us before, but we included him on this family-tradition of an adventure this year. We met the Garretts and part of the York family...it was fun to see their babies look at the lights and at us crazies
who rode the rides.
As usual, we stopped off at the animals first and let the boys feed them. Tate was comfortable letting the goats eat out of his hand. Brit kept his distance and threw his cup of food into the goat cage. We came up to this odd looking creature and Brit started backing up in fear shouting "Lion! Lion!"
Derek, Tate, Brit and I got warmed up on the Ferris Wheel and then we let the boys ride a few rides. Some of the rides were a little intense for two little boys...they loved them though.
Saturday, September 06, 2008
New Life, Continued
As I mentioned in my previous post, week 1 of Working Motherhood went better than I could have imagined thanks to best friends and Derek.
Week 2 was another story...
Monday was the first day of Preschool for Tate and Brit. Derek and I went together to drop them off and my deep sadness almost knocked the breath out of me. Sad because I saw all of the little sweeties that I had taught the year before, sad because I saw all the ones I would have taught this year and sad because I saw the fear in the eyes of my babies who did not want to go to Preschool. The practical part of my brain had shut off (you know, the part that should have said "Even if you were still an at-home mom, Tate would still be starting Pre-K and a few days a week of preschool would be great for Britton"). Oh, no, I was in full throttle mother-guilt land. I lingered outside of each of their rooms until I was satisfied that they would survive the next 8 hours without me.
I went to work with a pit in my stomach- but through prayer and the reminder that I was still in His will, my day got better. At 4:59 I was out the door and then arrived at Sonya's in under the 8 minutes that it would take a responsible driver to get there.
Alas, they were fine! I was greeted by smiles and sunshine.
So, the days got easier, but the week nights were rough. Derek left on Monday and didn't return until Saturday night. I was a virtual single mother and I didn't fare well. Mind you, I am not one of those "Can't function without my husband" whiny, wives. I survived over 400 days without Derek while he was in pre-deployment, then Iraq. And baby Tate and I managed to make the best of life without Dad when Derek used to travel for weeks at a time early in our marriage. The combination of work, making lunches, boosting toddler's self confidence, fatigue, strong-willed children almost did me in. I try not to cry in front of my children, but I did shed a tear or two that week.
Tate says all Confucius-like at the dinner table weeks later at a large family gathering: "Sometimes mommies and daddies cry. Like mommy cried when I wouldn't get in the car to go to the restaurant." So much for my "got it all together" facade.
Fast forward to weeks 3 & 4...I couldn't be happier and neither could my husband & children. The job is everything I could have ever wanted and my kids are so happy at Preschool and "Mrs. Sonya's house". Every minute that I have with them, I cherish. I am teaching Tate to read and encouraging Britton as he learns his colors, shapes, etc. We are blessed beyond measure.
This is not to say that we do not have difficult days- don't we all. But all in all we are doing great- individually and as a family. I cannot wait to see what the rest of 2008 has in store...
Week 2 was another story...
Monday was the first day of Preschool for Tate and Brit. Derek and I went together to drop them off and my deep sadness almost knocked the breath out of me. Sad because I saw all of the little sweeties that I had taught the year before, sad because I saw all the ones I would have taught this year and sad because I saw the fear in the eyes of my babies who did not want to go to Preschool. The practical part of my brain had shut off (you know, the part that should have said "Even if you were still an at-home mom, Tate would still be starting Pre-K and a few days a week of preschool would be great for Britton"). Oh, no, I was in full throttle mother-guilt land. I lingered outside of each of their rooms until I was satisfied that they would survive the next 8 hours without me.
I went to work with a pit in my stomach- but through prayer and the reminder that I was still in His will, my day got better. At 4:59 I was out the door and then arrived at Sonya's in under the 8 minutes that it would take a responsible driver to get there.
Alas, they were fine! I was greeted by smiles and sunshine.
So, the days got easier, but the week nights were rough. Derek left on Monday and didn't return until Saturday night. I was a virtual single mother and I didn't fare well. Mind you, I am not one of those "Can't function without my husband" whiny, wives. I survived over 400 days without Derek while he was in pre-deployment, then Iraq. And baby Tate and I managed to make the best of life without Dad when Derek used to travel for weeks at a time early in our marriage. The combination of work, making lunches, boosting toddler's self confidence, fatigue, strong-willed children almost did me in. I try not to cry in front of my children, but I did shed a tear or two that week.
Tate says all Confucius-like at the dinner table weeks later at a large family gathering: "Sometimes mommies and daddies cry. Like mommy cried when I wouldn't get in the car to go to the restaurant." So much for my "got it all together" facade.
Fast forward to weeks 3 & 4...I couldn't be happier and neither could my husband & children. The job is everything I could have ever wanted and my kids are so happy at Preschool and "Mrs. Sonya's house". Every minute that I have with them, I cherish. I am teaching Tate to read and encouraging Britton as he learns his colors, shapes, etc. We are blessed beyond measure.
This is not to say that we do not have difficult days- don't we all. But all in all we are doing great- individually and as a family. I cannot wait to see what the rest of 2008 has in store...
Tuesday, September 02, 2008
Well, I guess its about time I blog about my new adventure as a working Mother. I've been "on the job" for almost a month now and we've pretty much settled into our new routine.
The unofficial start to my day usually begins some time between 3 & 5 am. This is when one or more of my little 'wonders' decides to pile in with Derek and I in the double bed we share in our temporary love nest. After reclaiming my pillow and my fair share of the covers, I'll sleep until I have to officially rise and shine at about 6:45.
The its juice and cereal bar for Britton and the biggest cup o' joe Mommy can find.
Brit watches The Wiggles while I shower and dress. I start waking Tate up around 7:45 and by 8:00 he's (hopefully) munching on a semi-healthy breakfast of Lucky Charms and fresh fruit.
At 8:30 we are out the door and in the car headed for preschool. Our trek to preschool usually includes a winding, rocky back road in which we religiously stop every morning, roll down the windows and "moo" at the cows. It is a happy day when we actually receive a "moo" back from our new brown & white friends.
By 8:50 I am kissing the boys goodbye and trying to escape from the preschool building without getting trapped in conversation by another mother or preschool teacher. (NOT that I do not love to chat- we all know that I do- its just my days of endless chatter are over- at least between the hours of 9 & 5)
9 am finds me pressing the round black button on the Dell Desktop (yes, I do LOVE my commute) then scurrying off to the kitchen for my first cup of Office Coffee- which, thanks to Deidre, ain't half bad!
From 9 until 5 or after, my day is a whirlwind. Meetings, meetings about meetings, conference calls, planning sessions, drafts, phone calls, emails, office banter, etc. Most days I still cannot believe my eyes when my computer screen reveals 4:45 pm. I'm typically out the door by 5, especially when I am the one picking the kids up.
I pull into Sonya's driveway about 5:10 and am greeted at her door by two little happy shorties dying to hug me and tell me about their day.
By 5:30 we're barreling into the front door- all papers, bookbags and juice cups- the boys are running to find their toys, I am flinging my shoes off and putting on PJ's.
Dinner is now around 6 and has been great since we're living with "Gram"- the saintliest woman I know. Sometimes she will cook- sometimes its me- my favorite is leftovers because I don't have to cook and I don;t have to feel guilty about her cooking either.
After dinner I let the boys play outside or in- whichever they choose. Sometimes we will go to our new neighborhood and play tennis and fish. The boys LOVE tennis- and I LOVE to teach them how to play.
7 pm is bath time and after that, if Tate has had a "sunshiny" day- he is rewarded by a 30 minute dose of his favorite cartoon- 'Tom & Jerry'.
8pm is 2 story books and 2 "stories without words" as Tate calls them. The ones without words are what I make up and 9 times out of ten have to do with "Two little boys, a dark cave and a treasure chest". What can I say, usually by this hour my creative juices have run dry. I sing 2 songs (Godspeed & I will be Here), give lots of hugs, snuggles and kisses and then, fingers crossed, I'm out the door.
It is a rare occasion these days that the boys actually stay in bed without being "scared" or "thirsty" or "hungry". Unfortunately, we typically do not see the last of them until around 9- but we're working on this. "Boundaries", Laura- yes, I know!!
So.....what goes on between the hours of 9 & 10 pm??? I'll never tell!!! (I'll give you a little hint- draft paper, square footage and building materials).
If I'm lucky I'm in bed with a book by 10, if I'm being realistic, I'm usually up making sandwiches, packing lunches and getting everything ready for the next day until 11.
Then it all begins again the next day. Same time, same place.
So, that is what I do each day. Now I'll address what you really want to know...how do I feel?
The first week was pretty guilt-free since my children were cared for by a combination of best friends, family and my husband. Life was great really- I gave myself my job during the day, then was "Supermom" at night.
INTERNET INTERRUPTION....my mini novel was just deleted due to connectivity issues...will continue thoughts in a later post...
The unofficial start to my day usually begins some time between 3 & 5 am. This is when one or more of my little 'wonders' decides to pile in with Derek and I in the double bed we share in our temporary love nest. After reclaiming my pillow and my fair share of the covers, I'll sleep until I have to officially rise and shine at about 6:45.
The its juice and cereal bar for Britton and the biggest cup o' joe Mommy can find.
Brit watches The Wiggles while I shower and dress. I start waking Tate up around 7:45 and by 8:00 he's (hopefully) munching on a semi-healthy breakfast of Lucky Charms and fresh fruit.
At 8:30 we are out the door and in the car headed for preschool. Our trek to preschool usually includes a winding, rocky back road in which we religiously stop every morning, roll down the windows and "moo" at the cows. It is a happy day when we actually receive a "moo" back from our new brown & white friends.
By 8:50 I am kissing the boys goodbye and trying to escape from the preschool building without getting trapped in conversation by another mother or preschool teacher. (NOT that I do not love to chat- we all know that I do- its just my days of endless chatter are over- at least between the hours of 9 & 5)
9 am finds me pressing the round black button on the Dell Desktop (yes, I do LOVE my commute) then scurrying off to the kitchen for my first cup of Office Coffee- which, thanks to Deidre, ain't half bad!
From 9 until 5 or after, my day is a whirlwind. Meetings, meetings about meetings, conference calls, planning sessions, drafts, phone calls, emails, office banter, etc. Most days I still cannot believe my eyes when my computer screen reveals 4:45 pm. I'm typically out the door by 5, especially when I am the one picking the kids up.
I pull into Sonya's driveway about 5:10 and am greeted at her door by two little happy shorties dying to hug me and tell me about their day.
By 5:30 we're barreling into the front door- all papers, bookbags and juice cups- the boys are running to find their toys, I am flinging my shoes off and putting on PJ's.
Dinner is now around 6 and has been great since we're living with "Gram"- the saintliest woman I know. Sometimes she will cook- sometimes its me- my favorite is leftovers because I don't have to cook and I don;t have to feel guilty about her cooking either.
After dinner I let the boys play outside or in- whichever they choose. Sometimes we will go to our new neighborhood and play tennis and fish. The boys LOVE tennis- and I LOVE to teach them how to play.
7 pm is bath time and after that, if Tate has had a "sunshiny" day- he is rewarded by a 30 minute dose of his favorite cartoon- 'Tom & Jerry'.
8pm is 2 story books and 2 "stories without words" as Tate calls them. The ones without words are what I make up and 9 times out of ten have to do with "Two little boys, a dark cave and a treasure chest". What can I say, usually by this hour my creative juices have run dry. I sing 2 songs (Godspeed & I will be Here), give lots of hugs, snuggles and kisses and then, fingers crossed, I'm out the door.
It is a rare occasion these days that the boys actually stay in bed without being "scared" or "thirsty" or "hungry". Unfortunately, we typically do not see the last of them until around 9- but we're working on this. "Boundaries", Laura- yes, I know!!
So.....what goes on between the hours of 9 & 10 pm??? I'll never tell!!! (I'll give you a little hint- draft paper, square footage and building materials).
If I'm lucky I'm in bed with a book by 10, if I'm being realistic, I'm usually up making sandwiches, packing lunches and getting everything ready for the next day until 11.
Then it all begins again the next day. Same time, same place.
So, that is what I do each day. Now I'll address what you really want to know...how do I feel?
The first week was pretty guilt-free since my children were cared for by a combination of best friends, family and my husband. Life was great really- I gave myself my job during the day, then was "Supermom" at night.
INTERNET INTERRUPTION....my mini novel was just deleted due to connectivity issues...will continue thoughts in a later post...
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
New Job and Opportunity for YOU!
Hello everyone!
Monday was my first day as Executive Coordinator at Initials, Inc., a company that sells personalized gifts through direct selling (Creative Partners that do home, catalog and fundraising parties). I am working in their home office which happens to be in Clarkesville, GA (where Derek, the boys and I live). My job consists of product development (picking out styles, fabrics, products) and Sales & Marketing support.
We currently have Creative Partners in 35 states, with more being added each day. Everyone I know absolutely LOVES the products (purses, stationary, tote bags, jewelry, back packs, assorted gifts etc.- that ALL come with free personalization through monogramming, engraving or print)- you can view their Spring/Summer 2008 catalog online at www.initals-inc.com . They are offering their “Business in a Bag” starter kit for as low as they will all year during this month’s “Join With a Friend” promotion. The flyer attached will tell you that if you join with a friend in August, the Starter Kit will be yours for $79.99 (1/2 off the regular price).
· The average Creative Partner makes $200 per party.
· Set up/take down is a breeze- just setting out products- no cooking, cleaning, etc. involved.
· Perfect job for SAHM’s, Military Wives, Teachers...or anyone looking to make some extra money.
· These products truly sell themselves- people stop me all the time and ask me “Where did you get that bag?”
We are encouraging people to give this opportunity a try- even if it is just to earn some extra money for Christmas. The founders, (Britney & Ivy) of this company are FABULOUS! They began their business as Stay At Home Moms just like I have been for the past 4 ½ years. I feel blessed to be on board with Initials, Inc. and the opportunity for growth as a home office employee as well as a Creative Partner is tremendous. I know we all have our individual opinions about the Direct Selling Industry, but let me assure you- I would not have come out of my situation as a SAHM for just any company.
I attended their annual Conference in Buckhead last week and it was really hard for me not to sign up to be a Creative Partner- in fact, I may still do it or at least host some parties to get a better handle on the ins and outs of the business. If you are interested in any aspect of the business, whether it be purchasing product, hosting a party or becoming a Creative Partner, please send me an email at m.shaw@initials-inc.com . This will be my first and last “mass email” about the opportunities within Initial’s Inc. unless you tell me to keep you on my mailing list. Also, please forward this email to everyone you know that may be interested in any of the opportunities I mentioned above.
I am SO VERY excited about the Fall Catalog that is coming out September 1st! If you would like me to send you one in the mail, I will be glad to offer you a “sneak peak”- just send me your mailing address and I will get it to you asap!
Also, if you live in the North GA area or want to head up to the mountains for an evening, we are hosting an Opportunity Meeting on Thursday, August 21st at 7pm at the Home Office here in Clarkesville. This would be a wonderful way to check us out and to hear all about the business and the role of Creative Partner.
*Don’t forget to email me at m.shaw@initials-inc.com if you are interested in purchasing product, hosting a party or becoming a Creative Partner!
Monday was my first day as Executive Coordinator at Initials, Inc., a company that sells personalized gifts through direct selling (Creative Partners that do home, catalog and fundraising parties). I am working in their home office which happens to be in Clarkesville, GA (where Derek, the boys and I live). My job consists of product development (picking out styles, fabrics, products) and Sales & Marketing support.
We currently have Creative Partners in 35 states, with more being added each day. Everyone I know absolutely LOVES the products (purses, stationary, tote bags, jewelry, back packs, assorted gifts etc.- that ALL come with free personalization through monogramming, engraving or print)- you can view their Spring/Summer 2008 catalog online at www.initals-inc.com . They are offering their “Business in a Bag” starter kit for as low as they will all year during this month’s “Join With a Friend” promotion. The flyer attached will tell you that if you join with a friend in August, the Starter Kit will be yours for $79.99 (1/2 off the regular price).
· The average Creative Partner makes $200 per party.
· Set up/take down is a breeze- just setting out products- no cooking, cleaning, etc. involved.
· Perfect job for SAHM’s, Military Wives, Teachers...or anyone looking to make some extra money.
· These products truly sell themselves- people stop me all the time and ask me “Where did you get that bag?”
We are encouraging people to give this opportunity a try- even if it is just to earn some extra money for Christmas. The founders, (Britney & Ivy) of this company are FABULOUS! They began their business as Stay At Home Moms just like I have been for the past 4 ½ years. I feel blessed to be on board with Initials, Inc. and the opportunity for growth as a home office employee as well as a Creative Partner is tremendous. I know we all have our individual opinions about the Direct Selling Industry, but let me assure you- I would not have come out of my situation as a SAHM for just any company.
I attended their annual Conference in Buckhead last week and it was really hard for me not to sign up to be a Creative Partner- in fact, I may still do it or at least host some parties to get a better handle on the ins and outs of the business. If you are interested in any aspect of the business, whether it be purchasing product, hosting a party or becoming a Creative Partner, please send me an email at m.shaw@initials-inc.com . This will be my first and last “mass email” about the opportunities within Initial’s Inc. unless you tell me to keep you on my mailing list. Also, please forward this email to everyone you know that may be interested in any of the opportunities I mentioned above.
I am SO VERY excited about the Fall Catalog that is coming out September 1st! If you would like me to send you one in the mail, I will be glad to offer you a “sneak peak”- just send me your mailing address and I will get it to you asap!
Also, if you live in the North GA area or want to head up to the mountains for an evening, we are hosting an Opportunity Meeting on Thursday, August 21st at 7pm at the Home Office here in Clarkesville. This would be a wonderful way to check us out and to hear all about the business and the role of Creative Partner.
*Don’t forget to email me at m.shaw@initials-inc.com if you are interested in purchasing product, hosting a party or becoming a Creative Partner!
Monday, July 28, 2008
I wonder, is moving like giving birth? It is so painful during the act that you swear in the moment you will never do it again. And then, almost hours later you think- hey that wasn't so bad?
My pack rat ways have definitely caught up with me, as my husband warned they would over the past nine years of our life together. At this point, I don't think I'll ever buy my favorite "yellow lotion" during Clinique Bonus Time ever again! Who needs 50 small pouches with mini tubes containing creams you never even heard of?
Aye! I'll have to get a snapshot of the pile I've left for our trash man tomorrow...I'm thinking I'll leave him a tip!
My pack rat ways have definitely caught up with me, as my husband warned they would over the past nine years of our life together. At this point, I don't think I'll ever buy my favorite "yellow lotion" during Clinique Bonus Time ever again! Who needs 50 small pouches with mini tubes containing creams you never even heard of?
Aye! I'll have to get a snapshot of the pile I've left for our trash man tomorrow...I'm thinking I'll leave him a tip!
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Cha Cha Cha Changes....
If you are my friend, you already know the changes that are going on in our life right now. I will spare the details and cut to the chase. Two weeks ago we bought land on Monday and on Thursday we got a contract on our house and I accepted a full time position at Initials Inc.
We have to be out of our house by August 5th but I start work on July 3oth with a 5 day/night stay in Buckhead for the Initials Inc. yearly sales meeting- "Celebration". If I did not know that all of this fast paced timing was ordained by God, I think I would be checking into an insane asylum right now. Instead, I have the greatest sense of peace and purpose and I know I am being sustained by prayers from family and friends and the will of God.
So, why does a happy & blessed stay-at-home mom/Coordinator of MOPS decide to go back to work? I have no idea. I cannot give you a single reason for going to work full time- all I can tell you is that I am following the plan God has given to me.
In the coming months I will document my transition from "at home" to "at work". I am sure that there will be a vast range of emotions as our whole family embarks on these changes. I can tell you that I already look at my children in a new light of appreciation and adoration. My patience with them is beyond any I've had over the past 4 years. I am treasuring every moment, every smile, every tear.
As mothers, I believe we all set out to do what we feel is best for our family. Whether that be to work or stay at home. I am absolutely certain that I will be judged for my decision to work- after all, I was constantly judged as a stay at home mom. How sad that 99% of the time those who judge mothers are actually other mothers! I can tell you that there will be difficult times of sadness when I wonder what my children are doing "right now". Hopefully there will also be a sense of confidence as I know that I am contributing to my families' future as well as helping other mothers realize their dreams of staying at home and earning extra money through Initials Inc.
Dear friends- I do ask you that you pray for me- for Derek and for Tate & Britton. I still have to decide where the kids will go after preschool. Praise God for the three Christian women who have offered to keep them. I am overwhelmed by the support and encouragement that I have gotten from my closest circle- I LOVE ALL OF YOU!!
As for MOPS, I will remain on the Steering Team as we transition Missy into the role of Coordinator. I absolutely cannot wait to see how the Lord will use her this year and how AWESOME the rest of the Steering Team will be.
For now, I am packing and moving and preparing for a new carreer. Check us out at http://www.initials-inc.com/ .
Love & Many Blessings....
We have to be out of our house by August 5th but I start work on July 3oth with a 5 day/night stay in Buckhead for the Initials Inc. yearly sales meeting- "Celebration". If I did not know that all of this fast paced timing was ordained by God, I think I would be checking into an insane asylum right now. Instead, I have the greatest sense of peace and purpose and I know I am being sustained by prayers from family and friends and the will of God.
So, why does a happy & blessed stay-at-home mom/Coordinator of MOPS decide to go back to work? I have no idea. I cannot give you a single reason for going to work full time- all I can tell you is that I am following the plan God has given to me.
In the coming months I will document my transition from "at home" to "at work". I am sure that there will be a vast range of emotions as our whole family embarks on these changes. I can tell you that I already look at my children in a new light of appreciation and adoration. My patience with them is beyond any I've had over the past 4 years. I am treasuring every moment, every smile, every tear.
As mothers, I believe we all set out to do what we feel is best for our family. Whether that be to work or stay at home. I am absolutely certain that I will be judged for my decision to work- after all, I was constantly judged as a stay at home mom. How sad that 99% of the time those who judge mothers are actually other mothers! I can tell you that there will be difficult times of sadness when I wonder what my children are doing "right now". Hopefully there will also be a sense of confidence as I know that I am contributing to my families' future as well as helping other mothers realize their dreams of staying at home and earning extra money through Initials Inc.
Dear friends- I do ask you that you pray for me- for Derek and for Tate & Britton. I still have to decide where the kids will go after preschool. Praise God for the three Christian women who have offered to keep them. I am overwhelmed by the support and encouragement that I have gotten from my closest circle- I LOVE ALL OF YOU!!
As for MOPS, I will remain on the Steering Team as we transition Missy into the role of Coordinator. I absolutely cannot wait to see how the Lord will use her this year and how AWESOME the rest of the Steering Team will be.
For now, I am packing and moving and preparing for a new carreer. Check us out at http://www.initials-inc.com/ .
Love & Many Blessings....
Sunday, June 15, 2008
On this day It is only fitting that I send praise and thanks to the three fathers in my life.
David, my father. The quiet intellectual with a tender heart who was the rock of my childhood. You were the image of strength, composure and patience. You encouraged Independence and life lessons. I understand a little better now, the sacrifices you made for us. I miss the way we used to be. Time and distance is between us but I will always love you.
Derek, the father of my children. The way you melt when you hold our babies and the way you always want to be a better man for me and for them. The way you provide everything we need and so much of what we want. You take your job as father so seriously- the way a Christian man should. Thank you for the guard you let down as you raise our boys to be men who are not afraid to love freely. Thank you for the fishing trips, the vacations and all the fun things we do as a family. You are making our boy's childhood rich with memories and love. Thank you for sharing Jesus with them and being a glimpse of our eternal Father here on earth.
God, the Father and Savior of my soul. The way you tell me "it's all right" when it doesn't seem like it is. The way that you assure me and bring peace to my heart when I am walking in your will. The way you have been so very real to me the last 5 years of my life. I only wish I'd longed for you sooner. The beautiful earth you created for us to enjoy- I am amazed by your beauty daily. You've blessed me with everything I have ever wanted in life. Thank you for giving me eternal life and for giving meaning to my days here on earth.
My cup runneth over...
David, my father. The quiet intellectual with a tender heart who was the rock of my childhood. You were the image of strength, composure and patience. You encouraged Independence and life lessons. I understand a little better now, the sacrifices you made for us. I miss the way we used to be. Time and distance is between us but I will always love you.
Derek, the father of my children. The way you melt when you hold our babies and the way you always want to be a better man for me and for them. The way you provide everything we need and so much of what we want. You take your job as father so seriously- the way a Christian man should. Thank you for the guard you let down as you raise our boys to be men who are not afraid to love freely. Thank you for the fishing trips, the vacations and all the fun things we do as a family. You are making our boy's childhood rich with memories and love. Thank you for sharing Jesus with them and being a glimpse of our eternal Father here on earth.
God, the Father and Savior of my soul. The way you tell me "it's all right" when it doesn't seem like it is. The way that you assure me and bring peace to my heart when I am walking in your will. The way you have been so very real to me the last 5 years of my life. I only wish I'd longed for you sooner. The beautiful earth you created for us to enjoy- I am amazed by your beauty daily. You've blessed me with everything I have ever wanted in life. Thank you for giving me eternal life and for giving meaning to my days here on earth.
My cup runneth over...
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
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Wedding Weekend In Kentucky
Thursday we headed out caravan style with the extended family to Lexington KY for my cousin Josh's wedding. The morning was crazy- trying to leave the house "show ready" and making sure we hadn't forgotten anything. Luckily last Summer I took the time to make the most detailed packing list you've ever seen- so we NEVER leave home without all of our essentials. If you want a copy of it- email me and I will send it to you.
We pulled out of the driveway at about 12:10 pm and headed North. The drive wasn't all that bad actually, and the mountains we drove through were truly breathtaking. The boys stayed busy with various electronic devices (yes, all the modern conveniences I would have loved to have had as a child but swore as a mother "I would NEVER let my child have one of those..."). We stopped a little more often than Derek and I are used to but it was good for the boys to get our and stretch their legs. At 7:30 we arrived at our hotel and by 7:45 we were out the door headed for dinner.
I was a little nervous about the wedding because Tate was the ring bearer. He had been excited about it and looking forward to wearing his "awesome" tux as he described it. But you never know with kids, how they are going to act. I am happy to say that he did GREAT! He smiled appropriately and held onto the pillow despite uncle Alan's request to have him throw it over his shoulder. I have posted a video of his walk down the aisle on Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-FvuylNXhI
I was relieved when the ceremony was over and all the post-wedding pictures had been taken. We had survived. We left the wedding and arrived at the reception only to find that it was open-air (outside) and a little warm in the 90 something degree weather. Tate headed straight for the drinks and downed 3 cups of sickeningly sweet tea. 5 minutes later he was throwing up all over his tux! So, with no other clothes to don, he paraded around the reception in his undershirt and Thomas The Tank Engine underwear. Every now and then he would shout "I am about to pass out!" which meant- more drinks, please. He is SUCH a drama queen!
Hopefully we did not offend anyone by letting him roam around in his underclothes- we were sure to skip town as soon as the cake was cut. 5 minutes after we got into our hotel room, this was the scene:
All of my boys- reading, relaxing and looking so adorable in their t-shirts!
At about 7:30 am On Memorial Day, Derek and I were sipping our coffee out on the front porch leisurely enjoying the morning while the children played in the yard. It was the last time we'd so anything "leisurely" for the next seven days.
You see, my neighbor and Sorority Sister Audrey and her husband were out walking their dogs and strolling their son Cole. She came up to the porch and we exchanged pleasantries and then she asked me how the "land hunt" was going. I told her that Derek and I now know the Northern part Habersham County like the backs of our hands and while we'd found several lots that we liked- none were without fault.
My favorite so far had been a lot in Heyden Ridge- a 3 acre lot with a 180 degree mountain view. In fact, I just knew that is where I wanted to live. Well, when Derek and I talked about it over the course of three months, we came to the conclusion than a mountainous subdivision just wouldn't work for a 4-year old who loves to ride his bike. I digress.
So, Audrey asked us if we'd been into Grand Oaks Plantation? There was a wooded lot by a pond in there that she and Scott loved but the location is just too far away from Scott's work. So I said no, but we would have to check it out- she had us at "wooded and pond".
Audrey (did I mention she is a realtor) also mentioned that now would be a great time to put our house on the market because first time home buyers are still buying. Derek and I sort of laughed that off and said good bye.
Not 30 minutes after she left, I gave her a call and by the end of our conversation, Derek and I had decided to put our house on the market....by the following MONDAY! Needless to say, we have been working ourselves to the bone, day in and day out to get our house ready to show. In one weekend we mulched the yard, pressure washed the exterior of our home, painted all the interior walls, cleaned out closets, had a yard sale and threw out approx. 20 yard bags of trash/junk!
People who know our "Wedding in Week" and "Baby in no time" history, know that the Shaws don't do anything slow. So, here we are, living in our own "show home" with me chasing the kids with a broom in one hand and a duster in the other. The scent of Clorox permeates the air daily and all my knick knacks and useless kitchen tools are packed away. It has been pretty stressful knowing that our house could be shown at any time with only a few hours notice. My plan was to spend as much time outside with the kids as possible, but the heat has kept us inside the past few days.
So, I have no idea when or if the house will sell- if nothing has happened by the Fall, we will probably take it off the market and put it on again in the Spring.
Oh, and we have decided to purchase the lot that Audrey told us about in Grand Oaks. It is beautiful with a small creek in the back. We are just waiting on the Health Department to approve our septic site and footprint of our home.
You see, my neighbor and Sorority Sister Audrey and her husband were out walking their dogs and strolling their son Cole. She came up to the porch and we exchanged pleasantries and then she asked me how the "land hunt" was going. I told her that Derek and I now know the Northern part Habersham County like the backs of our hands and while we'd found several lots that we liked- none were without fault.
My favorite so far had been a lot in Heyden Ridge- a 3 acre lot with a 180 degree mountain view. In fact, I just knew that is where I wanted to live. Well, when Derek and I talked about it over the course of three months, we came to the conclusion than a mountainous subdivision just wouldn't work for a 4-year old who loves to ride his bike. I digress.
So, Audrey asked us if we'd been into Grand Oaks Plantation? There was a wooded lot by a pond in there that she and Scott loved but the location is just too far away from Scott's work. So I said no, but we would have to check it out- she had us at "wooded and pond".
Audrey (did I mention she is a realtor) also mentioned that now would be a great time to put our house on the market because first time home buyers are still buying. Derek and I sort of laughed that off and said good bye.
Not 30 minutes after she left, I gave her a call and by the end of our conversation, Derek and I had decided to put our house on the market....by the following MONDAY! Needless to say, we have been working ourselves to the bone, day in and day out to get our house ready to show. In one weekend we mulched the yard, pressure washed the exterior of our home, painted all the interior walls, cleaned out closets, had a yard sale and threw out approx. 20 yard bags of trash/junk!
People who know our "Wedding in Week" and "Baby in no time" history, know that the Shaws don't do anything slow. So, here we are, living in our own "show home" with me chasing the kids with a broom in one hand and a duster in the other. The scent of Clorox permeates the air daily and all my knick knacks and useless kitchen tools are packed away. It has been pretty stressful knowing that our house could be shown at any time with only a few hours notice. My plan was to spend as much time outside with the kids as possible, but the heat has kept us inside the past few days.
So, I have no idea when or if the house will sell- if nothing has happened by the Fall, we will probably take it off the market and put it on again in the Spring.
Oh, and we have decided to purchase the lot that Audrey told us about in Grand Oaks. It is beautiful with a small creek in the back. We are just waiting on the Health Department to approve our septic site and footprint of our home.
Monday, May 19, 2008
Mountain Laurel Festval
The Mountain Laurel Festival was this past weekend- what else are we supposed to do for fun ina small town? Anyway, we all got together on the Gailey lawn and watched the parade. Here are a few shots from the day (I stole a few from Beth's blog and some I took myself)..+002.JPG)
Madeline and Brit check out the band...it's a little too loud for Brit.
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Jack things that mom is WAY more excting than the dinky parade. +009.JPG)
Where did all these kids come from?
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Amy & Hudson and Stacey's sister with her second born.
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Andrea and little Andrew.
Hudson would rather nap.
A rare glimpse into Andrew's eyes.
"Look, I found the candy!"
Cora Clayton
Hayden grabls up the candy as fast as he can.
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Happy First Fourth!
We celebrated Tate's Birthday with a family gathering on Mother's day since my mom was in town. This is his first Fourth Birthday party- the second 4th will be in two weeks with his friends. I am sad because a few crucial picture files got corrupted (the one where he excitedly opens the Leapster that Derek and I got him, among others). We managed to salvage a few shots though. He was so excited about the cake that GG got for him and was very appreciative of all the gifts he received. He even lat Brit play with all of his new CARS.
I cannot believe it has been almost 4 years since I became a mama. I am enjoying Tate SO much at this age. He has such a great personality and is usually very well-behaved. I look forward to many more years with him!
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Uh-Oh Cheerio
This is what I came in on the other day AFTER I had already cleaned up the contents of an entire bag of pretzels (including a gazillion salt crystals) that Brit decided to sling all over the hallway. It is days like this that I feel a little discouraged. Like, no matter what I clean or straighten, some mini-tornado is right behind me leaving a trail of disaster behind. The pictures really do not do the mess justice because the Cheerios were covering the entire floor of his bedroom- it was a big box! 
Tuesday, May 06, 2008
Seis de Mayo
My little Britton usually takes a while to warm up to things- people, activities, new skills and letting his guard down enough to act silly. Before we left for Preschool today, he took me over to the mustache and sombrero and asked me to put them on him today. He wore his getup to school and by 10am the mustache was still oh him!
Monday, May 05, 2008
Cinco De Mayo
We had a little impromptu gathering tonight to celebrate Cinco De Mayo. No, neither Derek nor I are of Hispanic decent and as a matter of fact, according to my husband, Cinco De Mayo is a holiday created by a beer company that has no historical significance.
No matter. For us it was an excuse to get together with friends, eat yummy food and make chocolate chimmichangas! Tim and Joni brought their 4-yo son Drew who happens to be one of Tate's favorite buddies. Josh and Laura brought their 4-month old son Jack who sported a mean mustache and sombrero. James & Andrea brought little 4 week old Andrew who slept for most of the time.
The menu consisted of steak & chicken fajitas, beef burritos, rice, beans and this incredible homemade salsa that Joni brought. For dessert I treated everyone to chocolate chimmichangas a la mode which are pure sin but worth every calorie.
After dinner everyone went outside and we let the kids destroy the first pinata and then the adults took shots at another one. I think I will be picking candy out of our yard for the next month!
Anyway, it was a nice break from the usual Monday night routine and just what I needed to relieve the stress that this week has already brought on. If I can get through this week, I'll be oh so ready for Summer!
Thursday, May 01, 2008
Adventures in Mothering
A new year of MOPS officially began yesterday with the last 07-08 ST meeting and the first one of 08-09. I am thrilled to be working with such an incredible goup of women and am looking forward to a wonderful MOPS year. Our last MOPS meeting of 07-08 is May 9th and I cannot believe we've made it through an entire year! God has blessed this ministry beyond measure and I cannot wait to see all of the wonderful things that will happen next year. I have learned SO much since we chartered in Jan 07- about myself, my new friends and most of all God. HE is SO AMAZING!! We have a summer packed with play dates, Mom's nights Out and MOPS and POPs events...check out our blog that Laura has been dilligently updating: http://habershammops.blogspot.com/.
On another note- I watched Joni's son Drew and Missy's son Trevor the other day and they had a blast playing with the boys. Here are some fun pics of them together:
Put Put
We took the boys put-putting on Sunday afternoon. It was the first time they had ever been and they LOVED IT! It was nice to introduce them to something new. Tate really got into hitting the ball into the hole, but Brit liked holding the ball and dropping it in the hole. I was a little worried when it came time for the last hole- knowing that it would disappear into the ground. We told them that it was time for the balls to "go home" and they were ok with that. It was a great afternoon of family fun. :-)
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Potty Training Britton
So, I went out and bought Britton his own potty a few months ago. Tate was crushed by the fact that I didn't buy him one as well. Tate LOVES to go in Britton's potty, but 2 kids "going" in one training potty= LOTS of clean up for me. So, Tate is banned from the little potty which doesn't sit well with him.
Britton is not "loving" his own potty. He prefers the porcelain variety. Whatever floats his boat. Britton comes to me for help on the potty when he needs to poop, but urinating still happens in the diaper. I am not pressuring him. I didn't with Tate and I'm not going to start now. Here he is sitting on his new potty.
Boxers or Briefs?
Oh the weather is GORGEOUS today! The boys filled up the pool and had a blast playing splashing cars and "watering" the flowers. Unfortunately a few wasps showed up so me and the boys decided it was time to hang out inside for a while. Tate got his "bathing suit" out of his drawer which ended up being boxers. I had to explain to him the difference between boxers, briefs and bathing suits. It was kinda cute!
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
It doesn't feel much like Spring.
Is it spring already? The frost on the dogwood tree in our front yard this morning said, "not quite". But, indeed it is Spring and the few warm weather days we've had lately have found the Shaw's exploring the great outdoors as much as possible.
We tried our first attempt at camping (in our backyard) last Friday but never even got the tent unpacked because of the thunderstorms that threatened our campsite. We did get a chance to make a mini-bonfire, roast hot dogs and make sm'ores before we had to take the party inside.
The boys were disappointed that they didn't get to use their brand new sleeping bags and flashlights, so I let them "camp" in my closet. That's the thing about boys- that are ALWAYS looking for their next adventure. Most of the time I am happy to oblige.
I am ashamed to say that I haven't blogged since January. Several of my friends have jumped on the "blogwagon' and have inspired me to dust off the laptop keys and continue the digital scrapbook of our life.
We tried our first attempt at camping (in our backyard) last Friday but never even got the tent unpacked because of the thunderstorms that threatened our campsite. We did get a chance to make a mini-bonfire, roast hot dogs and make sm'ores before we had to take the party inside.
The boys were disappointed that they didn't get to use their brand new sleeping bags and flashlights, so I let them "camp" in my closet. That's the thing about boys- that are ALWAYS looking for their next adventure. Most of the time I am happy to oblige.
I am ashamed to say that I haven't blogged since January. Several of my friends have jumped on the "blogwagon' and have inspired me to dust off the laptop keys and continue the digital scrapbook of our life.
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